If you watched the super bowl you know who WON and who LOST. The “winners” looked like they were having so much fun as you see the players smiling, laughing, hugging and jumping up and down. The “Losers” had their heads down, not jumping around, not laughing or smiling. They looked sad. But, is it sad? Instead of calling it losing, how about calling it “learning.” There is so much gain and growth in losing, often times much more than in winning. Wayne Dyer says, “Change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.” Losing doesn’t mean you are a “loser”, it means that when you get to the win, you will have learned and gained more than the winner in the end. Instead of saying winner and loser, call it winner and learner! It is not as degrading as hearing the word loser!