Reach Each Summit: Island Peak

Reach Each Summit: Island Peak

Although this video length is just shy of 3 minutes, the story begins in 1998. I was on my first sabbatical from Longwood University and I chose to travel to Nepal to conduct research about the environmental degradation of the most popular trekking routes in Nepal (Khumbu and Mt. Everest Base Camp and the Annapurna Circuit). I was given the name of a trekking guide from a friend and followed through with communicating with him via email and Fax.

I arrived in Nepal in early March and spent a few days touring around Kathmandu. Next, I flew on a Russian helicopter to Lukla, the village that is considered the gateway along the Everest route. March was a bit early for spring trekking and the weather still produced snow at Namche Bazaar. It continued to get colder the higher in altitude we went. Heavy blankets seemed to work as doors but when the wind blew, the blankets no longer served its insulated purpose as they would flap in the wind, freeing the cold air to swirl around inside the tea houses.

I finally got a view of Mt. Everest from Namche at around 12,000 ft. To see the highest mountain in the world was breathtaking and I had to pinch myself to ensure this was reality. Climbing Mt. Kalapathar at 18,500 ft. was the most spectacular view of Mt. Everest and the Kumbu icefall. Imagining climbers having to navigate their way through these fissures in the ice was beyond comprehension.

But, it was on the way back to Lukla along a different route where my guide pointed out Island Peak. He said many people climb it and I could too. That conversation stuck with me for 21 years. I had returned to Nepal 3 other times to take students groups and thought about and saw Island Peak every time! I didn’t have the opportunity when I was with other groups so I put the idea off throughout those years.

I nearly abandoned the thought of going to climb it until I retired from my job as a professor. I realized that I now had the flexibility of time and I knew I wasn’t getting any younger. Once deciding I was going to return and climb the peak, I began my mental and physical preparation.

On October 15, 2019 I summited Island Peak. It was indeed the toughest climb I had ever experienced. The extreme gain in altitude in one day at altitudes above 18,000 ft along with the technical nature of the climb presented the breeding ground for relying on my will and faith to reach the summit.

Having pinned over this mountain for over 20 years was my testament to not live with the notion of “I shoulda, coulda or woulda.” I was pleased to have followed through. The challenge of it made it much more worth the planning, preparation, and significance of reaching the summit.

Change, Transition and Pivot:  What’s the Difference

Change, Transition and Pivot: What’s the Difference

Sometimes the words change and transition are used interchangeably to mean the same thing. Pivot, on the other hand, is a trending term that has a very similar attachment to change and transition. Knowing the differences among these terms will help in identifying where you are in the spectrum of movement.

Change is event or situationally driven. During the pandemic there is likely much change that has occurred; change in job, change in location and even change in lifestyle.
Transition, on the other hand is how you are psychologically coping with that change. Situational change can often be immediate whereas transition is a process. Letting go of the old or what was, developing the next phase and adjusting, and then creating the new beginning.

Pivoting is making a quick turn when change has happened by surprise or without you planning for it. Pivoting allows for a different view; adjusting your direction and continuing your momentum toward your goal or mission.

The word” stop” or giving up has no place in the process of change, transition or pivot. Embrace the change as it often launches growth and the transition will follow as you pivot your direction toward your desire.

Faith Lift

Faith Lift

Do you need a Faith Lift? Not a “face lift: but rather a lift in your Faith? Faith is a quiet strength and conviction of things that are unseen and unknown. During this COVID pandemic, your faith in a higher power or in anything/anyone may be in question because the unpredictability of your future is that much greater.

I put my faith IN God; all knowing, powerful and love of everyone. But I also have to have faith in myself; not to go to the dark side and have a mindset of doom and gloom. I also have to have faith in our influencers and country that our culture will get better and be better.

Many of you are protesting and demonstrating – there is power in a shared voice that wants change for the better. You are identifying the pain points that have existed for a very long time. It is needed and worthy of your voices to be heard. Faith is stepping out and making your voices heard, not knowing where it will go and how it will end up. If your intention is for good and your voice is not of harm, it will get better, it always does.

Let’s hope that our civil actions and words will honor people with great respect and love for ALL people. Keep your faith alive and give it a lift today!

The Power of Reflection

The Power of Reflection

As a former professor of Outdoor and Environmental Education, I lead many outdoor adventure trips that focused on the value of leadership, decision making and communication. At the end of each day but especially as a culminating debrief of the entire trip, I would ask students a variety of thought-provoking questions to draw out of them aspects of the trip that perhaps they did not consider on their own. Those reflective discussions were where the real revelations and judgments were unearthed.

I had a student once that said “I don’t know how to reflect”. My question to you is, do you know how to reflect? Reflection IS the process of making sense of an event that just happened, an experience you just had or even an encounter you had with someone. What went well; what didn’t go well; what would you differently the next time, what was gained from the overall experience? Often times there will not be someone else to draw out those reflective questions but with practice, you will gain the insight to identify those areas that need attention and those that you already have to take with you to the next situation.

The power of reflection is using what you learned and gained from the previous experience and apply it to future events. Growth occurs when you use what you gained and make the appropriate adjustments to get better and be better in the next round.

Non-Negotiable Promises To Give Yourself

Non-Negotiable Promises To Give Yourself

Have you ever awakened on the “wrong” side of the bed in the past? This cliché refers to your day not starting off well and it seems to increase the problem as the day unfolds.

Have you thought about how you are starting your day? What are some things that you do to improve the odds that your day will unfold in a smooth and more calculated manner? Consider the word “promise.” Have you ever promised a friend, your child, spouse or partner something and just by saying “I promise” sends the message of following through with greater importance? It even puts the word goal on a different level as a promise gives more strength to the outcome.

What are some promises or non-negotiable things that you do or will do to begin your day on the right foot. For me, it is getting up early in the morning, having quiet time to read or write, and ensuring I exercise in the morning. For others it may be making your bed, or having coffee, or thinking about your to do list, or meditation or a yoga time. This time is for you ONLY; time that you are unwilling to give up in order to get your day going in the right direction for you.

Let’s begin tomorrow with your non-negotiable promises. The consistency you deliver day after day, the more importance you give to your promises. Track your progress as you discover how you respond to others and how productive you will be at the end of the day.